God's Design for Marriage
Godly Living in the Today's World: A Study in 1 Corinthians • Sermon • Submitted
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1 Corinthians 7:1–9 (NIV)
Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
Paul has been speaking to the church in Corinth in regards to relationships. He just finished speaking about obstacles, specifically sexual immorality, to our relationship with God. Now Paul will address a concern in the church regarding their relationships with one another being obstacles in your relationship with God.
We are one with Christ. We have been bonded with the Lord in our salvation. Our relationship is defined though by roles. The same is true in our marriage relationships. Our lives together give tangible expression to our relationship with God. Just as our relationship with God is not a relationship of equals but rather the uniting of two into one, marriage mirrors that same process.
Husbands and wives are not two equals bonded together to conquer life, but rather marriage is the uniting of two individuals with Christ to become one. This is only possible through roles.
In a world driven by self fulfillment, the idea of giving of oneself for the sake of the other seems so foreign in our relationships, even those relationships that are most vital and intimate.
Union and Mission
Union and Mission
1 Corinthians 7:10–16 (NIV)
To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.
To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
Paul stresses us to look from God’s perspective and not our own in regards to our relationships here on earth.