Rarely are our actions done mindlessly. We CHOOSE how to act. The Boss Move of God is that He freely gives us that choice to make. Whether we choose right or wrong, He gives us the choice. He can do so because He's God enough to let us learn from our mistakes and then clean up the mess we left behind. God doesn't want to control us, He wants to LOVE us. Hence, we shouldn't want to control others either; instead, we should love them enough by giving them the freedom of choice as well. That's BOSS!
