Wedding of Loren Nelson/Marvill Groth
HLC-S 3/8/97 Texts: Eccl 4.9-12; 1 Cor 13:4-8,13; John 15.9-12
kind of romantic to think that after so many years you find each other: though I don’t know how romantic when consider how Loren proposed (tossed ring box while driving, You want this?)
a little bit like a fairy tale when you consider all the adventures you have been through that have all brought you to this day/place: Once upon a time… after many adventures and long trips and countless miles, fell in love, got married and lived happily ever after…
I don’t need to tell you, though, how the real world is not a great place for fairy tales, and so let me remind you about a couple things on God's place in your marriage.
the Eccl passage gave some very practical wisdom: the two of you can succeed where each of you alone might fail.
but last verse of reading goes on to say that a rope of 3 cords is not easily broken. What is that 3rd cord? the cord that will kep your marrge tied together is God hmslf
It is God's love intertwined among your love for each other that will keep your love strong and growing. In fact, God's love is the only thing that will keep your mutual love alive. //
now that all this talk about love sounds very nice, almost like a fairy tale should, but the thing is, in fairy tales, nobody seems to worry about shovelling snow, or get grocery or fix supper (though did L did have dream come true in someone who cooks as well as M)
That's why I want to remind you about God's love because I truly believe that it will be vital for your marriage.
In the real world, even love does not always go as smoothly as fairy tales say it should, & happily ever after can turn into sadly sometime laters
we all know that there can be problems in married life;
we can't count on fairy tale magic but we must depend on genuine, diligent attn to real love.
And that's why I want you to understand correctly the passage from 1Cor.
It talks about those 3 great things: faith, hope and love--and how the greatest of them is love.
It says: Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
What a declaration of love: eloquent, beautiful, inspiring--impossible. For all the brides and grooms who have been moved by these verses, not a single wedded couple has ever been able to live up to such love until death parts them
Do you know why? It's because when Paul is talking about you having love, he is talking about having the love of God within you. He is referring to God's love FOR YOU! The love you share with each other can aspire to such magnificent expression only insofar as it expresses God's love for you.
it is the love of God which will keep you together because God's love is far stronger and more powerful and more wonderful than even the most passionate and romantic of human loves
and this should be a great comfort and source of strength and encouragement to you, especially in the midst of trying and difficult times
For you see: you need not long for some fairy GODmother to help you out of trouble
you can count on a wonderful GOD who will be there with you in the midst of sickness and health and better and worse and all that the years may bring
So, when it's one of those times when you know that your life ain't no fairy tale, times when human love falters, when L isn’t particularly romantic, that's when you will most appreciate God's love.
It will be God's love for you which is that 3rd cord that will preserve your marriage and keep it from being broken.
and when that happens, well, Once upon a time, man (Loren) and woman(Marvill)
after many adventures and long trips and countless miles, fell in love, got married and lived happily ever after... and loved happily ever after because they were held in God's never-ending love AMEN.