Couples 2019.8.20 "I Wish He Knew..."
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Men want women to know...
Men want women to know...
emotional support
initiate sex
better communication
space
respect
Intro
Intro
Pastor, married 21 years, passion for marriage, #TeamUs, grateful for knowing your pastor
we’re going to have some fun.
I’ve got 5 things that they want ya’ll to know
just last night, your pastor made it possible for us to get together and do some Q & A
write down your question
This is what the women want the men to know
This is what the women want the men to know
1. Better Communication/Listening
2. Emotional Support
3. Respect us as women
-weaker vessel
-terribly flawed “as Christ loved the church”
-called out of and into
-bright light hurst your eyes. Your wife may have to adjust to the shine your Armour is giving off. FLIP IT...aren’t you having to adjust to His?! While you’re hi 5 about them being flawed...so are we!!! Q: how’s that? A: ‘as Christ loved the church...I’m a part of the church. And I’m messed up!
-co-regents
-man is the head, but the wife is the neck
-dominion mandate
-the problem is we’ve seen the wrong models. Ex. Dad. Mom never discussed anything w him. He wanted to know how much and when do you need it. I measured my manhood based on what i saw NOT what God intended.
-if you continue to sin against the law you will continue to get popped.
4. Show more public display of affection
5. Sex isn't the answer
-it might not be for them but it is for us!!!
-Marvin Gaye “sexual healing”
I’m going to attempt to do something that’s never been done before. I’m going to try to understand a woman.
I’m going to attempt to do something that’s never been done before. I’m going to try to understand a woman.
Stop taking my body and receive my heart - Better Communication/Listening
-ex. Gout; when it was over i felt like I’d been in a healing and deliverance service
Don’t just let me see you there, let me feel you there. - Emotional Support
Respect me as your woman - Respect us as women
Own me, don’t hide me - Show more public display of affection
I’m more than the keeper of your soft middle part -Sex isn't the answer
initiate sex
better communication
space
respect
Stop taking my body and receive my heart - Better Communication/Listening
Don’t just let me see you there, let me feel you there. - Emotional Support
the connection with Head and heart
Respect me as your woman - Respect us as women
music/movies/entertainment doesn’t do a good job showing us how to honor/respect
YOU have a vested interest in making sure this happens
Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
honor (state) n. — the state of being highly respected or revered.
fellow heir n. — a person who is an heir in the same inheritance as another.
4. Own me, don’t hide me - Show more public display of affection
i accidentally did this right. early in marriage I started owning her.
it fought off hoes
i got rid of the term “1st lady”
5. I’m more than the keeper of your soft middle part -Sex isn't the answer
it might not be for them but it is for us!!!
-it might not be for them but it is for us!!!
Marvin Gaye “sexual healing”
-Marvin Gaye “sexual healing”
ex. Gout; when it was over i felt like I’d been in a healing and deliverance service
-ex. Gout; when it was over i felt like I’d been in a healing and deliverance service
Question: How do you love this?! If they want this and we aren’t (as a whole) are giving them this, what do we do?
she’s terribly flawed
eph 5:25 “as Christ loved the church.”
that includes you
called out of and into
called out of and into
-bright light hurst your eyes. Your wife may have to adjust to the shine your Armour is giving off. FLIP IT...aren’t you having to adjust to His?! While you’re hi 5 about them being flawed...so are we!!!
25 Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church—a love marked by giving, not getting. 26 Christ’s love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her,
The Dominion Mandate
The Dominion Mandate
-the problem is we’ve seen the wrong models. Ex. Dad. Mom never discussed anything w him. He wanted to know how much and when do you need it. I measured my manhood based on what i saw NOT what God intended.
-if you continue to sin against the law you will continue to get popped.
Evoke the principle of covenant.
Evoke the principle of covenant.
1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom; Lend your ear to my understanding,
warranty: if something goes wrong with my car, i take it back to the dealer and they fix it for free.
app: it’s the dealer’s job to make her work and the make you work
15 Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. 16 Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? 17 Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you. 18 Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice with the wife of your youth. 19 As a loving deer and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; And always be enraptured with her love.
water n. — a clear, colorless, odorless, tasteless liquid that freezes at low temperatures and boils at high temperatures.
spring (fount) n. — a natural flow of ground water.
stream (river) n. — a natural body of running water flowing on or under the Earth.
****the word “let” is not in the original language. It’s a statement of fact her breast is where your satisfaction.
not the fake DDs
God’s been trying to teach us w stats the 2nd and 3rd marriage has a higher chance of failing…drastic
When a man leaves his covenant partner for side-piece
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