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Let's celebrate.

It's a party up in here.

What we say, they ain't no party like the Holy Ghost party cuz the Holy Ghost Party, Don't Stop.

A person comes to Jesus.

It's celebrating

Amen, so if you will, we are going to turn out your now to the text.

Let us pray.

Thank you, God, for your word.

Thank you.

That is true that when you spoke it, you did not start up dictum.

Factum you said it, it happens and father we pray that you had Eternal truth.

Now, what I'm packing it I'm in impress upon your people.

Responsibilities that you have extended to we who are fathers and those who someday want to be Father's.

We pray God that you would use it as a means of encroachment.

Now let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in thy sight or Lord my strength and My Redeemer in Jesus name.

Amen, I have in my preparation.

One of the things that I try to do is to make sure that there are relevant facts to what we're talking about.

We don't have fat, check is here but just in case we do want to make sure that what we're saying is accurate.

One of the challenges that we do it within our society primarily is, is this thing called the father wound and our father heard if you will.

Because there is an absence of I would go a step further and say not Father's but Daddy's There is a difference.

Father, any man can sire children.

But it takes a man whose side the children now to nurture them, which means he's Daddy.

That's the difference between the two.

And so we are finding that there's data that's following behind that.

And so since this data following behind that we find that that that that, that this data that's driven this says, a few things.

in an article called science of dad, and the father effect, since the impact of fatherhood is not subjective, but an objective and documented phenomenon Although motherhood has dominated studies of parenting in the past, researchers are learning more about how to be a good dad.

And why that matters every day so far, they know that kids you grow up with a present engaged at operative, phrase are less likely to drop out of school or wind up in jail compared to children with absent fathers and no other male caretakers or Role Models.

When kids have post relationship with Father figures day, they're less likely to have sex at a young age and tend to avoid other high-risk behaviors, they're more likely to have high paying jobs healthy stable relationships when they grow up.

They also tend to have a higher IQ higher test scores by the age of three and they in do a few or psychological problems throughout their lives when fatherhood is taken seriously.

When does the, when do we most see this?

I'm of the opinion.

That, that that the time that we see fatherhood at, its best should be when things get to they worse.

Is when troubles come that we can really tell how good at being father's.

We are We can tell whether or not we've given good direction and Times of watch this come we can tell whether or not we had been there to nurture the child all the way because it's been during those difficult times, that the children are kids begin to Resort back to that which we told them, when there was no confusion.

we see this as an example, in Luke chapter 15, And Luke chapter 15.

We see that the Father Here must have done some things in order to ensure that his son came back home.

Because that's what we do.

We get into an argument.

We we blow off some steam, we tell the kids, you know, let the, let the door hit you where the good Lord split you.

And that's it.

There's no reconciliation.

There's no amelioration, there's no way that we try to bring it back together.

You know, I'm, I pay the cost to be the boss in this house.

And as far as I'm concerned, until you can pay the key, but the horse that sits around the door knob that, you think the key in, you can't do nothing up in there.

but this father, This father here in chapter 15, a blue gives us at least five qualities of an excellent father.

I want you to know that it's significant that were talking about a.

Of time where you're dealing primarily in the tail.

In a patriarchal society is significant to see how this father responds to his son, who is going awry.

Text Stars right there in verse 11 of chapter 15 and before you go a little bit further.

Even in that, there's some things that you need to know about.

This particular chapter, this chapter talks about the law and the lost coin, both of which are valuable.

The lost sheep is valuable because it's a vulnerable animal.

It's an animal that needs to have someone to Shepherd it and there's no one to Sheppard, it can be taken advantage of by wolves.

I mean it's the 23rd.

Psalm the Lord is my shepherd.

I shall not want.

He maketh me lie down in Green Pastures.

You lead me beside the Still Waters, he restores my soul.

It gives us the picture of someone who needs to be led because we are frazzled, we are without knowledge.

We are vulnerable and so we have to have someone to leave this in.

So here's the same thing as you have a sheet that's lost and it shows us that the shepherd, leave that hundred to go after that one leaves at 9 to go out to that one because that s*** sheep is valuable.

But he goes to differ that he has talked about the Lost coin and talks about how the individual cleans our old house.

Define this Lost poem.

Why?

Because this one that's missing is out of sorts and they don't have the whole and it's valuable in and of itself, but a corn and a sheep does not compare to a son.

My son is important because back during that time, the sun with the individual, who's responsible for continuing the legacy of the Father, the Son was important because he carried the father's name.

The sun was important because he was a representative of that father's residence of his home is sold.

The Father Here gives us a snapshot that is here is Luke chapter.

15 of what needs to take place in order.

Watch this to rescue To bring back into the fold out children.

I don't know about you, but if you've ever had a child that was rebellious lost their mind.

Dana Eve, listen to instruction in here.

He gives us five qualities.

That helps us to bring them back to the pole if you will look what it says.

They're verse 11 and it says he said, he said a man had two sons of the younger of them.

Said to his father.

Father, give me the portion of goods that fall into me, and he divided under him, them, his living, and not many days after the youngest son gather, all together and took his drain to a far country and they're wasted his subsequent riotous living that.

What you need to understand here.

Is that, is that the sun was saying to his father dad, you know?

Because you don't, we did.

Okay.

So usually by the time you get in here to somebody as had to die in order to get the scenario and so that the sun was basically saying to his father, I wish you were here.

I wish you were dead, so I can't message back.

Matter fact, dead monkeys.

Go ahead and fast forward.

Give me what's my, whatever.

I was going to get.

When you die, give me that now, Advance it to me, but I want you to know that the father had to be watch this number one, approachable.

I want you to think back of your relationship with your dad, was he approachable?

Let me bring it home.

Are you approaching?

Ccmc Subs.

If there's some cases, I know this happens and this happens in our home but but it was a time I wipe my ass is I mean, no cuz you was asking me.

You already know the answer.

But the reason why the sun could even have a dialogue with his father because he was approachable.

You see, without your husband, know that they can talk to us pack, goggles it further when I spouse is even know, Come on, talk to me somebody that they can have a meaningful and steps of conversation with us.

Just what we can get into the weeds of things.

We can deal with things that may be having it down the line, but when we are not approachable, we can't even have a meaning for a subsidy of conversation because there's so much fear involved.

So you can't develop intimacy around fear.

You can't develop intimacy with your children around fear.