Mentoring and Discipling

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Commitment to Mentoring and Difference from Discipling

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Mentoring Students

What is the objective of Mentoring?

Biblical Counseling Keys on Mentoring E. Discover the Joy of Mentoring

Successful mentoring is not just teaching or training, but a transfer of life. If your priority is prayer, your disciple will prioritize prayer. If you have a servant’s heart, your disciple will seek a servant’s heart. The delight of mentoring is that your priorities in life will transform your disciple’s pattern of life.

—June Hunt

Successful mentoring is not just teaching or training, but a transfer of life. If your priority is prayer, your disciple will prioritize prayer. If you have a servant’s heart, your disciple will seek a servant’s heart. The delight of mentoring is that your priorities in life will transform your disciple’s pattern of life.
—June Hunt

What is Mentoring and Discipling?

What is Mentoring and Discipling?

A commitment by one person to equip another for personal growth is shared by both mentoring and discipling.
The major difference in this discussion is that mentoring is without regard to the mentored person’s salvation. You may be involved in a mentoring relationship during which you are not blessed with seeing the person’s salvation.
• Mentoring equips by means of teaching and training—and by example.
• Mentoring involves …
… not just teaching, but training
… not just facts, but philosophy
… not just formality, but fellowship
… not just information, but transformation
… not just learning, but living
… not just parroting the teacher, but perpetuating

What does a Mentor look like?

2 Timothy 2

What does a Mentor look like?

1 You therefore, my ason, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. 2 The things which you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, entrust these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also. 3 Suffer hardship with me, as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. 4 No soldier in active service entangles himself in the affairs of everyday life, so that he may please the one who enlisted him as a soldier. 5 Also if anyone competes as an athlete, he does not win the prize unless he competes according to the rules. 6 The hard-working farmer ought to be the first to receive his share of the crops. 7 Consider what I say, for the Lord will give you understanding in everything.

8 Remember Jesus Christ, risen from the dead, descendant of David, according to my gospel, 9 for which I suffer hardship even to imprisonment as a criminal; but the word of God is not imprisoned. 10 For this reason I endure all things for the sake of those who are chosen, so that they also may obtain the salvation which is in Christ Jesus and with it eternal glory. 11 It is a trustworthy statement:

For if we died with Him, we will also live with Him;

12 If we endure, we will also reign with Him;

If we bdeny Him, He also will deny us;

13 If we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself.

An Unashamed Workman

14 Remind them of these things, and solemnly charge them in the presence of God not to wrangle about words, which is useless and leads to the ruin of the hearers. 15 Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth. 16 But avoid worldly and empty chatter, for it will lead to further ungodliness, 17 and their talk will spread like gangrene. Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus, 18 men who have gone astray from the truth saying that the resurrection has already taken place, and they upset the faith of some. 19 Nevertheless, the firm foundation of God stands, having this seal, “The Lord knows those who are His,” and, “Everyone who names the name of the Lord is to abstain from wickedness.”

20 Now in a large house there are not only gold and silver vessels, but also vessels of wood and of earthenware, and some to honor and some to dishonor. 21 Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from these things, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified, useful to the Master, prepared for every good work. 22 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 23 But refuse foolish and ignorant speculations, knowing that they produce quarrels. 24 The Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all, able to teach, patient when wronged, 25 with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition, if perhaps God may grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth, 26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, having been held captive by him to do his will.

2 Timothy 2
You therefore, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. The things which you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, entrust these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also. 3 Suffer hardship with me, as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No soldier in active service entangles himself in the affairs of everyday life, so that he may please the one who enlisted him as a soldier. Also if anyone competes as an athlete, he does not win the prize unless he competes according to the rules. The hard-working farmer ought to be the first to receive his share of the crops. Consider what I say, for the Lord will give you understanding in everything.
Remember Jesus Christ, risen from the dead, descendant of David, according to my gospel, for which I suffer hardship even to imprisonment as a criminal; but the word of God is not imprisoned. 10 For this reason I endure all things for the sake of those who are chosen, so that they also may obtain the salvation which is in Christ Jesus and with it eternal glory. 11 It is a trustworthy statement:
For if we died with Him, we will also live with Him;
12 If we endure, we will also reign with Him;
If we deny Him, He also will deny us;
13 If we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself.
An Unashamed Workman
14 Remind them of these things, and solemnly charge them in the presence of God not to wrangle about words, which is useless and leads to the ruin of the hearers. 15 Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth. 16 But avoid worldly and empty chatter, for it will lead to further ungodliness, 17 and their talk will spread like gangrene. Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus, 18 men who have gone astray from the truth saying that the resurrection has already taken place, and they upset the faith of some. 19 Nevertheless, the firm foundation of God stands, having this seal, “The Lord knows those who are His,” and, “Everyone who names the name of the Lord is to abstain from wickedness.”
20 Now in a large house there are not only gold and silver vessels, but also vessels of wood and of earthenware, and some to honor and some to dishonor. 21 Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from these things, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified, useful to the Master, prepared for every good work. 22 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 23 But refuse foolish and ignorant speculations, knowing that they produce quarrels. 24 The Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all, able to teach, patient when wronged, 25 with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition, if perhaps God may grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth, 26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, having been held captive by him to do his will.
New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version. (1995). La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation. Page . Exported from Logos Bible Software, 3:41 PM January 1, 2019.

Pitfalls in Mentoring

The “Ten Commandments” of Mentoring and Discipling
Thou shalt not …
I. Thou shalt not put your disciple above your relationship with God.
II. Thou shalt not “play God” in your disciple’s life.
III. Thou shalt not point your disciple to anything but Scripture for all teaching.
IV. Thou shalt not fail to meet regularly with your disciple.
V. Thou shalt not play “mother” or “father” in your disciple’s life.
VI. Thou shalt not kill or discourage the spirit of your disciple.
VII. Thou shalt not neglect your personal family or work.
VIII. Thou shalt not steal your disciple’s affections.
IX. Thou shalt not fail to be truthful with your disciple.
X. Thou shalt not envy the success of your disciple.
The Christian mentor can say, as Paul did,
“Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.”
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How and what should you do to Mentor?

Demonstrate by your actions the Christian impact on your life
Detail for yourself a plan for helping the person grow
This will require you to get to know the person and find their needs (not yours)
Display unconditional love (very few people have experienced unconditional love and Jesus commanded us to love one another - unconditional love is not “giving in” rather it is expressing love while working for what is best for the other person)
Discover their potential
Allow for setbacks
Show interest in their lives
Show appreciation for them (read the 5 Love Languages)
Develop an intimate friendship
Be vulnerable
Be honest
Be willing to admit personal struggles
Be warm and affectionate
Discern needs and fulfill them when you can
Encourage with phone calls and notes of praise
Extend help with their issues (see the 10 commandments above)
Include in your activities
Determine to pray daily for them
Delight in the joy and growth from investing in the life of another (3 John 4)
Adapted from: Hunt, J. (2008). Biblical Counseling Keys on Mentoring: How to Shepherd the Sheep. Dallas, TX: Hope For The Heart. Exported from Logos Bible Software, 3:53 PM January 1, 2019.
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