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Introduction

Today’s ‘Big Issue’ is that of addiction.

And what we’re going to do for the first few minutes is listen to some stories from real addicts and also from experts talking about addiction.

Cos when we think of addiction, in our minds, more often than not, we are taken to alcohol, or drugs, or cigarettes.

Because that’s where we hear about most addictions.

However, a quick google search shows that there are other addictions in the top ten that might surprise you...

Here are some of the top addictions...

TV, Internet - social media - Facebook etc., Shopping, Gossip, Anger, Food, Coffee, Gambling, Pornography, Alcohol, cigarettes, prescription drugs, Work.

Now, you’ll notice in that list that alcohol, cigarettes, gambling and so on - THE BIG HITTERS - are present, but notice the others that are there too...

TV, social media - how many times do you go to a restaurant or anywhere really, and everyone is on their phones.

And in this list as you look at it, there are some addictions that are sinful - the likes of pornography, gossip, drugs, if they’re illegal drugs.

But there are also some addictions that, in and of themselves, they aren’t sinful - such as, TV, food, shopping, prescription drugs, and so on.

And then again there are some addictions that aren’t going to affect your life terribly much, like coffee.

On the other hand, there are some that can seriously damage your life, like alcohol, gambling, even shopping.

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So let’s hear a couple of real-life stories from people who were caught up in some of these things...

Work...

Over time, workaholics experience breakdown syndrome.

They seem fine on the outside, but on the inside, it’s chaos.

One study of employees at a large financial consulting firm found that people with a compulsive work mentality reported more headaches, insomnia, and weight gain.

Worst of all, they had a higher risk of metabolic syndrome, which contributes to heart disease, stroke, and diabetes.

Gambling...

Soon I was regularly going to local casinos.

I had a built in tolerance for gambling - quarter slots were not good enough, dollar slots were not exciting enough.

Within six months of starting my gambling in earnest, I was playing $100 slots – the highest available - at $200 a pull.

For me it was only about the high - the greater the risk, the greater the reward.

I could not lose money fast enough.

Within six months of my intense gambling I had lost hundreds of thousands of dollars.

I went through my home equity line, all of the credit I could get from my credit cards, and borrowed from anybody who would give me money - all under false pretences.

I spent any money I could get so I could keep gambling.

Money was my drug, and since gambling was how I got high, I would get it anyway I could.

Alcohol...

I went to Spain for 6 months – my university days are still a black hole full of twinkly lights – and was hospitalised with alcohol poisoning.

Came back and got married to a heavy drinker, workaholic, who took care of the boring stuff – bills, housework etc.

I was a charming wife – he never knew what he was coming home to.

We had two beautiful children and drinking to party was no longer an option – so my secret drinking started.

Hiding bottles, trying to hide the fact that I’d had a drink, sneaking extra drinks whenever we had company, stealing money for drink, making any excuse to buy a bottle.

And it got worse.

I started to feel ashamed – a quick burn that another drink would fix.

Pornography...

“Like many addicts, I learnt to hide my addiction.

At first glance, I was a regular young adult.

I had a stable job working as a counsellor and a sexual purity educator.

I went to church every Sunday.

I loved Jesus.

In secret, I watched pornography and masturbated.

The more porn I watched, the higher the dose I needed to get satiated.

I would spend a whole weekend indoors binging on pornography, only leaving the house to attend church service.

Shopping...

For the past three years, Elenor, now 33, had been spending money the couple did not have on clothes, shoes and cosmetics she did not need, and which were now mostly hidden, unused, in wardrobes and drawers.

‘I was so anxious about making sure Richard didn’t find out what a mess we were in that the only thing that made me feel better was buying more things,’

And, by the way, a shopping addiction when you DON’T have money is devastating, but there are many who have a shopping addiction but who are so well off they don’t realise they HAVE an addiction.

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Shopping…working…gambling…drinking… In every instance, these addictions are harmful - harmful to the person.

Harmful to those close to the person.

Families suffer…relationships suffer.

And in each instance of addiction, there is a similar goal - to get that ‘FIX’ - whether it’s the high from a drug, or the relief from prescription drugs, or the elation of winning big, or the feeling of importance being the FIRST person to spread the rumour… In each addiction there is a drive and a motivation for that FIX - the feeling that you’re after.

And it’s that FIX, it’s that feeling that controls the addict.

It’s like they are under its spell - in it’s power, under its control.

They’re like a slave to it.

Now, couple that with the feeling of shame or embarrassment that people have as an addict - that feeling of having NO control over it, and knowing that their addiction is harming them and their families, but they just can’t stop it... Couple the feeling of being under its spell and in its control with feeling embarrassed and ashamed that you are helpless to stop it and what you’ve got is a slave and a master - the addict being the slave and the addiction being the master.

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Here’s a snippet I found online from a website on abuse...

Many survivors of sexual abuse feel ashamed, embarrassed or guilty and never report the abuse.

That phrase could be describing an addict.

You see, people who are addicts are slaves who are being abused by an abusive master - the addiction being the master.

The good news is that Jesus talked about this in Matthew 6 in his sermon on the mount.

He says, in verse 24...

And I would like to unpack this a bit tonight to see how we tackle addictions that we might be facing or how we approach those whom we love who are suffering addiction themselves.

First of all, as we look at this verse…the word SERVE in this verse doesn’t do the text justice.

The word used in the Greek is the word doulos.

It means slave.

So a better translation would be, no one can be a slave to two masters.

This makes it better to understand, because a slave had no rights.

They weren’t considered as people - they were “things”…tools that could be thrown out, beaten even killed if the master so desired.

They had NO value at all, they had no control over what they did, and they also had no time that belonged to themselves.

It’s not like they could work during the day and have time to themselves at night - not for a slave.

They had no time for themselves.

The master was in full control of their slaves and every hour was under their control.

Now, once again, notice the similarities to addictions?

People who are addicts are controlled by their abusive master - whether that’s the desire to win, the desire to get high, the desire to escape life, the desire for more stuff....

Addicts are controlled by these masters.

And in the worst cases, these desires occupy every minute of every day - they have NO TIME for themselves - the main thing on their mind is where the next fix will come from.

That’s all they can think about.

Addicts are slaves to an abusive master.

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Next thing to notice from this verse is also in the Greek - so it’s hard to notice…the word for ‘master’ here is the word, Kurios - which is translated in the majority of verses in the bible as ‘lord’.

It’s used of Jesus all the time.

Jesus is Lord - Kurios.

So you can’t be a slave to two lords.

There cannot be two lord’s controlling your life.

And the reason why we can’t be a slave to two lords is because you will love one and hate the other.

Now, this is a Jewish idiom - It’s not that you will love one and HATE the other.

It’s you will love one MORE and love the other LESS.

There’s competition here.

But the point is that anyone who is LORD over your life SHOULD have your 100% devotion and you should be giving 100% of your time to this master.

They must have complete power over you and you must love that lord with everything you’ve got.

Remember Deuteronomy 6:5?

100% devotion.