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Welcome -
Aristotle: We form our habits and our habits form us.
Most People Have Up Hill Hopes and Down Hill Habits
Most people being each year hoping for something better.
Raise, kick and addiction, relationships will be better...
I know you have your goals and dreams, but many of those are not what God is wanting you to do… you are doing these on your own power.
Start this way...
Week 1 - Focus on What You Do First
Week 2 - Control Our Thoughts.
Week 3 - Keep My Life Aligned with My Purpose.
Today’s Habit is a Giant one
Habit #4: CHOOSE MY RELATIONSHIPS CAREFULLY
You are the sum total of your relationships.
You are who you are and where you are because of the people in your life.
Your relationship decisions are the most important decisions you will every make.
You show me your friends and I will show you your future.
4 Verbs or relationship choices you need to make that will change your life.
Nurture my important Relationships.
God, Family, Friends …
YOur relationships are in the condition they are because of the attention and nurture you give or don’t give it.
I pray for you and your families.
ILL - You may think the fire has gone out of your relationship… the fireplace is not the problem… get a match.
Light that fire.
Re light that fire.
Relationships take work and that’s what nurture is.
Kathy - best wife in the world.
I am married to an angel… not easy.
Devil hates our marriage and we have to work on it.
I will be married to Kathy long after I am no longer doing what I am doing or what she is doing…
The grass is not greener on the other side… and if it is, it’s because the water bill is higher.
You can restart the relationship fire.
Choices lead, feelings will follow.
Don’t lead your life with your feelings so if you make the right choices, your feelings will follow.
Nurture your relationships
They did a marriage conference.
Love Covers - disunity and conflict is of the devil.
This idea of if we disagree, we hate each other is of the devil.
Love covers.
Restore my Broken Relationships.
I know that this is hard.
The pain of fixing the relationship is not as bad a the broken relationship.
I know that you are not always able to fix it because the other person will not work with you.
Look at this… not i your notes
I know that this is difficult and not always possible.
Determine that you will do this as far as you are concerned.
If you can’t live at peace with them, live at peace with you.
Decide that you will forgive… no matter what they do.
Lord’s Prayer - Jesus said that we are to forgive others … Wee need it.
We need to forgive others.
Forgiveness is a daily decision.
Forgive me as I forgive other people.
I need to do this… release them to the Lord.
We cannot hold un-forgiveness in our heart and be successful.
Un-forgiveness is like setting yourself on fire and hope they die of smoke inhalation.
Last line - This makes it easy.
How can I hold un-forgiveness towards someone when God has forgiven me so much.
Sever any Harmful Relationships.
or redefine your harmful relationships.
Not your husband or wife … God wants the marriage relationships restored.
Sever Relationships that we have allowed into our lives that you know are not good for you.
Flirtatious relationships on … FB Relationships, or classmates…
couple were cheating on each other with someone else on FB.
They arranged a meeting with the person and when they met, it was each other and it made them mad and they divorced.
Stop those flirtatious relationships at work… change jobs if you have to.
Read Proverbs 5, 6, 7 - results of adulterous relationships.
Do whatever it takes to Get away from it.
Co-habitation - living together.
No one wants to commit.
Get married.
Couple that had kids and lived separately until they got married.
Stop the flirting - look at the consequences.
Look at what you will lose, the people you will hurt and stop it.
Cut it off.
Change your number, Get off FB, move, Change jobs...
This one is happy....
Initiate some Meaningful Relationships.
Start some relationships you don’t have.
In Recovery, you are taught to change your places you go, people you hang out with and things you do.
You need to rid yourself of some relationships and initiate new, godly, and healthy relationships.
We all need meaningful relationships.
It takes effort.
The friends that drag you down are easy to find.
We have to find the right kind of meaningful relationships.
Here is how you can initiate new meaningful relationships.
Putting the Habit Into Practice.
If these are not in your life, you need them.
1. Develop my Relationship with My Church.
You need to belong.
30 verses in the NT that talk about connection to A Church.
I know that there will be times when your are just coming and watching… that’s ok.
But there comes a time when you need to belong.
ILL - marriage - Kathy and I had an attender kind of relationship .... dating.
Then we decided to become members and we had a wedding…
I know some of you are checking things out, and that’s ok.
But you will not know if you fit until you commit and get involved.
You need to make the commitment to join and be a member.
2. Develop my relationship with Godly Friends.
Here is how you know you have godly friends … they pull you up towards Jesus and your relationship with him.
Secret - get to a comfort level where you can share honestly and openly.
We need a place where we can take our masks off.
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