Sermon Tone Analysis

The Perfect Father

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ILLUS.

- “You,” said the doctor to his patient, “are in terrible shape, & unless something is quickly done you’re going to die.

You’re under too much stress and you’re not eating right.

Tell your wife that she must start cooking more nutritious meals.

And to help reduce the stress, have her keep the kids off your back so you can relax.

Then make a budget and tell her she has to stick to it.

If she’ll do all this, you should recover completely.

Otherwise, you’ll be dead in a month.”

Obviously shaken, the patient said, “Doc, would you calling my wife before I get home & give her those instructions?”

When he got home, his wife rushed to him.

“I just talked to the doctor,” she wailed.

“Honey, he said you only have 30 days to live.”

I. Introduction

 A.

“Happy Father’s Day” to all the dads who are here today.

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- One little boy, when asked to explain about Father’s Day, said, “It’s just like Mother’s Day, only you don’t spend as much on the present.”

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Maybe we’re not quite as sentimental about Father’s Day because, after all, most fathers are not as sensitive to children’s needs or alert to sentiment as mothers are.

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– You have heard of the mother who left her room in the maternity ward to go down to the nursery & found her husband staring at his newborn baby.

The mother could tell he was captivated by the baby by how intently he stood there looking down at it.

She was so touched that finally she tiptoed up behind him & slipped her arm through his, & said, “Honey, what are you thinking?”

He said, “I just can’t understand how they’re able to make a crib like that for only $89.95.”

B.

The Inception of Father’s Day

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- It’s Father’s Day, & the very first national celebration of this day was on June 19, 1924, by proclamation of President Calvin Coolidge.

But it all came about because of the efforts of Sonora Smart Dodd.

Sonora was sitting in church in 1909 listening to a Mother’s Day sermon when the idea of Father’s Day first came to mind.

Having been raised by her father after her mother’s death, Sonora wanted her father to know how special he was to her for all his parental sacrifices & for being, in her eyes, so courageous, selfless, & loving.

Through her efforts Pres.

Coolidge designated the 3rd Sunday of June as “Father’s Day.”

And our nation has been celebrating it ever since.

1.

Father’s Day gives us a chance to honor those who stand at the helm and lead their family through life’s battles.

·         ILLUS.

- James Dobson, in his book, “Dare To Discipline,” suggests 3 specific things for a father to keep in mind.

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The earliest years = (time with mom).

Years bring change, & father often becomes the example in attitude & action that a child follows.

(God, church, spiritual things) “Fathers are followed,” & this is not something that we can just turn over to mother to handle.

2. The 2nd thing he suggests is that the best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.

Paul tells the Ephesian husbands (& us) to love their wives “…just as Christ loved the church & gave Himself up for her.” ()

3. Thirdly, a Christian father will arrange to spend time with his children.

James Dobson goes on to say that “Good fathers are made, not born.”

But to be a good father you need a model, an example of a father that you can pattern yourself after.

Where do you find such a father?

Where do you look?

Is there such a thing as a perfect father?

Ray’s saying….

“Practice doesn’t make perfect…perfect practice makes perfect.”

Yes, there is, & today, let’s see what we can learn about being a father by looking at God, the perfect Father.

I. GOD LOVES HIS CHILDREN

·         “We love because He first loved us.”

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·         “But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

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He Loved Us and Loved Us First

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He didn’t wait for us to meet His expectations or wait for us to make Him proud.

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Didn’t wait until we measured up to His standards….He loved us first…complete, constant, unconditionally.

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It may anger Him when we disobey, sadden Him when we stray, but he never stops loving.

·         () - Paul, “I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels or demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

ILLUST.

- Erma Bombeck wrote something that is rather intriguing.

She wrote:

“When the Lord was creating fathers he started with a tall frame.

An angel standing nearby said, ‘What kind of father is that?

If you’re going to make children so close to the ground, why have you put fathers up so high?

He won’t be able to shoot marbles without kneeling.

He won’t be able to tuck a child into bed without bending.

He won’t even be able to kiss a child without stooping.’

God smiled & said, ‘Yes, but if I make him child size, who will the children have to look up to?’

“And when God made the father’s hands, they were large….

The angel shook his head & said, ‘I don’t think you want to make hands like that.

Large hands are clumsy.

They can’t manage diaper pins, small buttons, rubber bands on pony tails, or even remove splinters caused by baseball bats.’

“God smiled again & said, ‘I know, but they’re large enough to hold everything a small boy empties from his pockets at the end of the day – yet small enough to cup a child’s face in his hands.’

“Then God molded long, slim legs & broad shoulders.

The angel nearly had a heart attack.

‘Boy, this is the end of the week, all right!’ he said.

‘How’s he going to pull a child close to him without the kid falling between his legs?’

“God smiled & said, ‘A mother needs a lap but a father needs strong shoulders to pull a sled, balance a boy on a bicycle, or hold a sleepy head on the way home from the circus.’

“God was in the middle of creating two of the largest feet anyone had ever seen when the angel could not be contained any longer.

‘That’s not fair,’ he said.

‘Do you honestly think that those large boats are going to get out of bed early in the morning when the baby cries?

Or walk though a small birthday party without crushing at least 3 of the guests?’

“Again God smiled, & He said, ‘They’ll work.

You’ll see.

They’ll scare off mice at a summer cabin, or leave footprints that will be a challenge to follow.’

“God worked throughout the night, giving the father few words, but a firm voice & eyes that saw everything.

Finally, almost as an afterthought, he added tears.

Then He turned to the angel & said, ‘Now are you satisfied that he can love as much as a mother?’

And the angel was silent!” (From Bruce Howell on SC)

SUMMARY -  Yes, God does love His children - & so should we!

II.

GOD ENCOURAGES HIS CHILDREN

 A.

God Is Quick to Encourage His Children

ILLUST.

-  A psychologist tells about going to school as a little boy & failing a test in math.

So the teacher wrote a note & sent it home with him.