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Introduction

Message # 45 | | May 14, 2017

Introduction

Tertullian, who was considered to be the father of Latin Christianity declared that the one thing that converted him to Christianity was not the arguments they gave him, because he could find a counterpoint for every argument they would present.

“But they demonstrated something I didn’t have.

The thing that converted me to Christianity was the way they loved each other.”[1]

Love, a Definition

For us to fully appreciate this unique and beautiful chapter on love, I would like to offer a definition for love.

You may initially question the need and think that the chapter possesses its own definition.

In a way it does, but the many characteristics that are offered for love are more manifestations of love than they are a definition of love.

With that said, the definition I offer is probably as well a number of characteristics of love compiled into a sentence and termed a definition.

So then, what I desire to offer that will be distinct from the external characteristics and manifestations of love in verses 4-7 will be the internal qualities of love.

Let’s start with a lexical definition for love.

Friberg defines agape love as “an attitude of appreciation resulting from a conscious evaluation and choice.”[2]

This agape love is slightly distinguished from phileo love which is defined as a “devotion based in the emotions, often distinguished from ἀγαπάω (love), which is devotion based in the will.”[3]

I don’t want to attempt to make to stark a distinction between the two words.

They do seem to be used interchangeably at times, but whether or not they can be used interchangeably, there appear to be levels or dimensions of love that are slightly distinct from one another.

One dimension of love is based on emotion whereas the other is based on the will or one’s choice.

One dimension of love appears to be focused on the feelings of love and the other on the decision or actions of love.

Regardless, we find that it is love that is to be characteristic of the believer.

Jesus tells his disciples in John’s Gospel, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.

By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” ( ESV).[4] Paul reiterates this in Corinthians.

“Let all that you do be done in love” ( ESV).

So then, let’s take a moment to better understand the internal qualities of this kind of love, mostly drawn from the example set for us in Christ.

Love is sacrificial.

The love that God desires of us and is reflective of His character is sacrificial.

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son” ( ESV).

“By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers” ( ESV).

“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends” ( ESV).

Love places the welfare of others above your own.

Love does not sacrifice for sacrifice alone.

There is always a recipient that benefits from the sacrifice.

God did not sacrifice His Son so that he would be viewed as sacrificial, but because his sacrifice resulted in salvation to the world.

Christ did not lay down his life to simply offer a model of sacrifice.

He laid it down for our benefit and we are to lay down our lives for the benefit of others.

Love is not based on feelings.

It’s not that this type of love doesn’t possess feeling; it’s just not based on or rooted in emotions or feelings.

At the root of the modern idiom, “we fell out of love,” is a type of love that only exists as long as the feeling or emotions of love are present.

The love described in is not threatened or shaken when the feeling of love fades because its foundation is not in feelings.

It is a choice.

Therefore, in contrast to love being rooted in one’s feelings, Friberg’s lexicon tells us that this love is “devotion based in the will.”

It must be a choice, for who would ever love their enemy based on their feelings, yet that is what Jesus calls us to.

“I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” ( ESV).

It’s an action, not just a statement.

This love that is a choice to sacrifice one’s self for the welfare of another must be worked out in one’s actions, not simply declared or verbally acknowledged.

“Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth” ( ESV).

[As a side note, this type of love needs to be acted out and not just said, but it doesn’t hurt to verbalize it as well.]

Not based on the treatment of the one being loved.

Jesus displays this as he washes his disciples feet.

He displays love towards them as they argue about who’s going to be the best in the kingdom and Judas sits there thinking about how to betray him.

He sacrificially loves them full well aware of Peter’s impending rejection of him.

As Jesus humbles himself and washes Judas’ feet, he exemplifies what it looks like to “love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” ().

In similar fashion, God’s love towards us was extended to us while we were hostile to him.

Paul tells us that “we were enemies [when] we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son” ( ESV).

“You, who once were alienated and hostile in mind, doing evil deeds, he has now reconciled in his body of flesh by his death” ( ESV).

“But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ” ( ESV).

God’s love towards us was extended to us while we were actively hostile to Him.

His love was not dependent upon the treatment by the one being loved.

Our love as well must be so robust as to be expressed to others, even when they are unlovely, unkind, and even hostile.

In all practicality, whenever someone declares, “I love you” they find something lovely within the recipient of the declaration.

A young man finds a young woman beautiful or charming.

One friend finds within the other companionship and enjoyment.

One spouse finds within the other years of a life together, enjoyment of a personality, memories, etc.

The recipient of one’s love always brings something lovely to the table.

But God loves what is unlovely.

God did not love the world because the world is so lovely that he just couldn’t help himself.

God only loves the world because of what he is.

And that is how a Christian is to learn to love.

Their love is to be rooted in themselves and not dependent upon the recipients loveliness.

Of course, this can only occur as God transforms the life of a believer through his love and grace.[5]

Therefore a completed definition for love.

Love is a willful choice, not based in one’s emotions, the treatment of the one being loved, or the circumstances in which one finds themselves, to sacrifice themselves for the betterment or well-being of the other.

Love, the Essential Ingredient

Paul is going to unfold for us, by use of three overly dramatic statements, that love is an indispensable ingredient in the service of a believer.

In each verse, Paul starts off with a reasonable statement – a spiritual gift – but then dramatically takes it a step further.

He wants the reader to imagine the greatest possible extension of that gift, to only acknowledge that it’s nothing without love.

If I speak in the tongues of men

and of angels,

but have not love

I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal

And if I have prophetic powers

and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains

but have not love

I am nothing

If I give away all I have

and if I deliver up my body to be burned

but have not love

I gain nothing

His point is not to offer any realistic scenario, necessarily, for no one can have all knowledge.

No one can understand all mysteries, no one can have all faith.

Paul is using hyperbole and not establishing real potential scenarios.

He also is not offering up a new speech – angelic speech – in which we are to pursue speaking.

No one can speak with the tongues of angels.

Eloquence without love is annoying and empty (13:1).

Tongues of men and of angels.

This verse has played a remarkable role in the modern discussion on tongues.

The implication has been drawn from this verse that some gifts of tongues manifest themselves in the tongues of angels.

Yet, this is not the point Paul has in mind at all.

It is true that Paul has the gift of tongues in mind as he addresses this point, but he uses angelic speech to heighten the dramatic hyperbole of the verse.

“Paul recognizes the ability to speak . . .