1 Timothy 5
Introduction**
Sometime around 66AD or a little after, a faithful believer that we know little about named Jude (or Yehudah) wrote a letter to a group of Christians that we also know little about.
We don’t know who they were.
We don’t know where they were.
Jude wanted to write about the wonderful things of salvation.
Jude wanted to write about the wonderful things of salvation.
Jude wanted to write about the wonderful things of salvation.
But because false teachers were so plaguing the church, the Holy Spirit required that he write about apostates who turned from the faith and wanted to turn others.
We are committed to studying God’s Word verse by verse and chapter by chapter.
That being said, I’m a bit relieved that chapter 5 deviates from false teachers and directs us toward another subject … the proper treatment of church members.
In fact, they are stepping stones not to the salvation of the lost, but of the apostasy of the believer.
So then, what’s the problem?
If it’s not doctrine and theology that are pushing people away from the Gospel … what is?
People reject the Gospel because of the hardness of their hearts because they love sin.
The proper goal for the believer – and for the church – is never numerical growth.
The proper, biblical goal is faithfulness.
And yes … Faith is not doctrine.
But doctrine is absolutely critical to the expression of faith.
False teachers and false doctrines were a problem in the early church … they are a HUGE problem today.
And over the past few weeks we’ve dealt with quite a few of them, and I’m glad we have.
If we go back even further in church history to the very first church, we find their very first problem (outside of persecution, of course.)
Because many of those who remained did so at the forfeit of livelihoods and homesteads in the lands they were from, this first church “Shared in all things.”
So, in the very first days of the church, apostasy was not an issue … they continued in the apostles doctrine.
But … the church was made up of sinners saved by grace, from various walks of life … and as such, needs arose.
So the church sought to help to fill in the gaps with a daily distribution of food … possibly in the form of a meal being served.
Well, 30 or so years later, the church had grown dramatically and was no longer only in Jerusalem.
There were individual churches throughout the towns and cities of Asia Minor, Greece, Macedonia, Phoenicia, Samaria, Judea, Europe … possibly as far west as Spain and even up into England.
Paul had already given Timothy instruction on securing correct doctrine in the church, dealing with false teachers, gender roles in the church, and leadership roles.
So, Paul will focus on several important social relationships in this chapter … and also in the first part of chapter 6.
V1-2
The NKJV simply uses the word “rebuke” here … “Do not rebuke an older man …”
But the NASB, NIV, and some others use, “Rebuke harshly” or “Sharply rebuke.”
The next pertinent word is one we’ve seen many times now in our study of the NT.
Timothy was a relatively young man, and it was probably difficult for him to reprimand someone older than himself.
Some have read this and concluded that Paul is not necessarily speaking of age, but rather speaking of people in leadership positions.
Rebuke is always tricky.
In fact, it can be so tricky, that we avoid doing it altogether.
It is always wrong to hold back the word that needs to be heard.
Paul says to exhort elders in such a way as to honor them, and exhort younger men and women as family.
v3
In that time, this was often a dangerous state for a woman, because there was such dependence on a husband’s income and work.
In fact, the Bible in the Old Testament often classed widows with the fatherless and orphans.
Now, Paul says something very interesting here … “Honor widows who are really widows.”
The word “honor” in v. 3 means “to fix the value,” as in our word “honorarium,” an amount paid to a speaker for services. Timothy had to be careful not to misuse the church funds by giving money to unworthy widows. In his day, as today, there were deceivers who preyed on people under the masquerade of religion. Such people usually visited churches because they knew that soft-hearted saints would give them a handout “for Jesus’ sake.”
Timothy had to be careful not to misuse the church funds by giving money to widows who were not truly in need.
In his day, as it is today, there were deceivers who preyed on the compassion of others.
v4-8
Adult children or other close relatives were expected to care for widows, who couldn't make a living themselves.
But if her own children were dead, then her grandchildren should accept the responsibility.
Adult children or other close relatives were expected to care for destitute widows, who had no opportunity to earn wages in ancient society.
What if a son or grandson was unwilling to care for his widowed mother or grandmother?
Paul says in verse 8 that, “He … is worse than an unbeliever!”
A Christian who refuses to care for his widowed mother or grandmother falls beneath what even unbelievers do naturally.
And that is a shame, since the Christian has a Lord and Savior Who is the supreme example of love.
A widow the church helps should not be a self-indulgent person, seeking pleasure, … but a godly woman who hopes in God.
She can in turn minister to the church body.
A godly widow can be a “spiritual powerhouse” in the church.
They have fewer ties and can devote themselves to serving God and the church.
But, Paul also notes that not every widow should be helped by the church.
v9
A woman of this age was not likely to get remarried in that day, though 60 is not considered that “old” today.
I think the bigger question is the phrase, “Taken into the number.”
The early church had an official list of the names of qualified widows … a kind of “support list.”
If they were young, they were likely able to support themselves or had living children who could help to support her.
In the 1st century there were few if any jobs offering employment for women, much less for widows. Paul encourages the younger widows to remarry—in part because they still have strong sexual drives, in part because idleness tends to create busybodies and gossips.