Sermon Tone Analysis

A decade or more ago a hit Christmas movie became an iconic annual tradition for many families -

HOME ALONE!

A child fed up with feeling like being the low man on the totem pole wishes away his family at Christmas to realize being alone isn’t all its cracked up to be.

One of the most common mental battles for many today is LONELINESS!

Who wants to feel alone.?

Existentialism is the philosophical belief we are each responsible for creating purpose or meaning in our own lives.

Our individual purpose and meaning is not given to us by Gods, governments, teachers or other authorities.

This attitude in our ever increasing agnostic society permeates human mindset - and increases loneliness leaving people who feel detached from others to feel isolated.

It is perhaps a leading cause for increase in suicide in our world today.

Social loneliness is the sense of having no social circles

People can be active on social media and yet alone - facebook and instagram actually can lead to depression and isolation.

The reality is existentialism detaches us from the greatest HOPE there is ---

WE ARE NOT ALONE!

Jesus came to be with us!!!

1. Jesus Moved Into Our Neighborhood

Jesus came to be with us where we are!!!

Realize today, Jesus did not come to a nice neighborhood -

It was one filled with Roman dominance and oppression, where His people were a step off of slavery...

A neighborhood where all the baby boys under 2 were being slaughtered...

Nevertheless - He stepped down into darkness, the creator of all things - light himself - to be like his creation!!!

I have seen a facebook meme circulating this week

Christmas - when the Great Creator became my Savior

That required Him to move into our neighborhood and hang with us.

I guess the reality of this is - are there any other proclaimed deities that left eternal perfection to come down to be with those that rejected them?

This is how far Jesus came to be with us!!!

Jesus came to live in us and walk with us in this life so we would not have to be alone!!!

So we can be HIS PEOPLE!!!

He is with us in our struggles with sin, sorrow and even death — He is there beside us!!!

Interesting that when we feel unsatisfied (often money is at the root of creating insecurity - Jesus says I AM HERE!

On your best day and on your worst day

JESUS - GOD IS WITH YOU!!!

2. Are We Friendly Neighbors?

You may say, well - I am a Christian, I have received Jesus into my life, but I still feel lonely...

My question then is what neighbors are you hanging out with???

I live on a cul de sac - and there are about 10 houses on it.

When we first moved in everyone was trying to connect with one another - but not everyone was worthy hanging out with --

During Covid you would see the a communal firepit and outdoor block parties, but that quickly disseminated when Covid was over.

There was two neighbors in particular that were controlling and mean - thankfully the worst of the two moved away - and oh the peace in the hood!

The reality is we can live in the neighborhood and not connect to anyone!

Jesus can move in next door and you can ignore Him and never spend time communing with Him.

When was the last time you didn’t drop off a to do list, or demand of your neighbor to meet the HOA standards, and you stopped to have a meal together!

Christian, we need to invite Jesus in to fellowship!

We need to take time to commune!!!

Not just communicate, COMMUNE!

Listen to His heart and His plans - they include you!

But we are too busy with all the other neighbors or the people on the other street!!!

We are too busy doing our own thing and then when we are left out of the other neighbor group - because they don’t love us like Jesus does — we feel empty and alone.

I read this week how when God gave the Promised land to Israel to possess - they took ownership but not possession.

They did not always drive out the inhabitants of the land...

In fact, when God said to drive them out, they turned and made some of them their slaves - but that turned around and eventually worked against them and brought evil and destruction in their midst...

They owned the land - but they didn’t possess the land...

Christian, God has given you ownership in this life of all His promises, but you are not possessing the fulfillment of those promises because you are still hanging out with the previous inhabitants/ neighbors in the land ---

This is leaving you empty inside --

Jesus is calling you to a deeper relationship with Him - are you opening the door to the best neighbor possible?

3. Our Neighbor Gets Us

No one will ever understand you like Jesus!

He has experienced everything we have and gets it!

We mentioned this last week...

He knows our struggles and overcame!

He came to earth to experience our struggles so He could identify with us and give us a path out!

I don’t know about you, but I connect easier with people who get where I have been and get me!

To be understood is half of the lonely battle.

We can be in a room full of people, but if we don’t feel like any of them understand us, we still feel alone!

not Jesus - He came to be with us, to get us, to save us!!!

The same God who is by our side, understand what we are going through.

He gets loneliness

He gets betrayal

He gets abandonment

He gets being denied

He gets being lied about

He gets having his friends not support him

He gets all of it!!!

AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU!!!

In fact - HE IS BESIDE YOU and even IN YOU — but you may be ignoring HIS FRIENDSHIP

He is the faithful friend you may be taking for granted!

Instead of flourishing in the abundant relationship waiting for you!

CONCLUSION

Here is the reality church...

Jesus intentionally came to earth to be with us eternally....

His physical presence - GOD ON EARTH, CREATOR MANIFESTED

But more than just that - His Spirit resides in us to be with us!

He is asking you the question...

“WON’T YOU BE MY NEIGHBOR?”