Sermon Tone Analysis

Welcome

I would like to welcome you all here this afternoon, which is made sacred with the spirit of love and friendship you bring to this space.

On behalf of Reta’s family I would like say “thank you” so very much, to all of you who have come to be with them today.

We are here to say farewell and to honor the life & memory of Reta Lutes.

We remember and celebrate Reta for her inspiration and devotion to her family, her service to her church and community, her compassion for those in need, her love of children, her adventurous spirit, and the hope that she had placed in her Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.

It is for that final reason, her hope and unwaivering belief in Jesus, that know that we are saying farewell today and not good bye.

We are also here this afternoon to offer thanksgiving and gratitude for Reta’s time with us and we know that her presence is here amongst us in our time together through all of our loving memories of her as we meet to celebrate her life.

Each of us comes with our own unique memories of Reta, for she was not the same person to any two people.

And, we each bring our own special memories of a woman who touched our lives with love & friendship in so many different ways.

Reta’s was a life one that was well lived, rooted in her faith.

So, please join me as we take some time to open in prayer.

Prayer

Our Father in heaven, we open our time together today acknowledging your presence all around us.

Nothing is hidden from you, O Lord.

You know each and every person who has gathered here today.

I commit to you every person in this room.

Let Your Spirit move in our midst and bring peace.

Lord, direct our thoughts to you as it is not easy for us to stand here and say farewell to her, but we know that Reta is now together with You in heaven.

With her being with you it means that she is not here with us.

It is painful to gather for this reason.

But in the midst of pain, we give great thanks.

And as we are here together, we remember all the good times we’ve spent with her.

We recount all blessings we’ve received through her life.

We thank you, O Lord, for all the wonderful ways you’ve used Reta in the life of every person here today.

As we remember her, let the unconditional love that you showered upon Reta during her life fill this place.

Let your grace be upon each person that is here today.

In Jesus’ name, we pray.

Amen.

Song/Hymn:

He Leadeth Me

Joseph Gilmore was preaching at a mid-week prayer service on the topic of Psalm 23.

He wrote later, that he set out to give the people an exposition of the 23rd Psalm, but he got no further than the words ‘He leadeth me.’

Those words took hold of him as they had never done before.

He saw in them a significance and beauty of which he had never dreamed…At the close of the meeting a few of of his people kept on talking about the thoughts which he had emphasized; and then and there, on a back page of his sermon notes, he penciled the hymn just as it stands today, handed it to his wife, and thought no more of it… She sent it without his knowledge to be printed on December 4, 1862.

Scripture Reading:

Psalm 23 & 1 Peter 1:3-9 Rev. Andy Scott

Solo:

Where the Roses Never Fade

Eulogy

Rob Roundell

Message

We rejoice in the lives of the ones that come before us.

Those who set an example in life and in love.

We have so much to be thankful for when we think back on each of our relationships with Reta.

I know that she still had her sense of humour right to the end.

I was watching the slide show earlier and I was counting cakes.

I was told there have been A LOT of cakes.

She, at one point, was telling me about her trips with seniors bus tours.

She shared a story about walking across a suspension bridge and someone was jumping on it.

She told me that she didn’t like that one bit.

Although, she said that with a big grin, so I am not so sure.

The other night I sat in Reta’s living room and listened to lots of laughter around stories from over the years.

As I listened I thought to myself, “what a great legacy.”

I heard about her family and just a small peice of her history.

Yes, there were tears.

Some of sadness and some from laughter, and others from good memories.

I want to say that it has been a profound honour to get to be a part of Reta’s life these past two and a half years.

Covid 19 made it very difficult to safely visit with her and most of our time together has been on the phone.

But the few times I got to meet her in person and the other times we spoke on the phone were always encouraging.

She always had something positive to say.

She never complained.

She always seemed full of peace.

Even in her last weeks, while she was in the hospital.

She was taking care of everyone around her.

You couldn’t keep her down.

I watched and listened to all of the stories of her getting someone to get chocolates for the nurses so they knew how much seh appreciated them.

She also made sure that her kids were taken care of.

Telling them to get rest and from what I was told she wasn’t reminding them to rest but telling them too.

Listening to all of the great stroies over the past few days it is undeniable that she was a good mom, friend, sister, and example of a Christ follower.

I didn’t know her for a long time but I know this: She had an incredible capacity to love.

That is evident by the people she had around her.

Both her family and her friends.

I can only speak this afternoon to what I have known of Reta these past 2 years.

I believe that the passage that came to me for today captures what I have come to appreciate about her.

I also, believe it is an appropriate reminder of who God can be for each one of us.

Philippians 4:4-9

She always spoke to me about her love for the Lord.

Even in some of her lowest days she always told me that when she got to feeling down that she would turn to her Bible or just remember that God was always with her.

I think this is an important reminder to always to remember to rejoice in the Lord.

Even on hard days like today.

We can rejoice and be sad at the same time.

In the short time I knew Reta I was always moved by her gentle spirit.

She always had a kind word and an encouragement.

Even when I was calling to encourage her.

I am willing to bet that many of us can think of multiple times where that was the case.

She always told me, everytime we spoke, that she felt the presence of the lord near her.

It was so amazing to see her faith and her conviction that God was there.

I was told by multiple people in our Church family when I first started at Uplands that “if you needed someone to pray for something Reta should be your first call.”

Boy were they right.

I want to encourage all of us today that no matter where we stand in our relationship with God we need to always remember that a little gentleness can go a long way.

When I met with Reta in the hospital, she knew that “she would not be returning to her home in Riverview but going to her new home in Heaven.”

She told me how she was ready to go.

One of the last things she said to me was, “God better not change His mind this time.”

Then she chuckled.

She spoke of her new home in heaven.

She spoke of seeing people that she had said farewell to over the years.

We can’t know for sure what she was feeling but I can say that from what I witnessed She cast her cares on the Lord and trusted in Him.

God hears us when we pray.

He always answers.

Sometimes the answer is no.