As we remember those who sacrificed their lives for our country, I also think about the families and friends of the fallen. I hear their stories as the watched the transformation of their loved ones from wild teenager to polished soldier. Many young recruits enter the military full of themselves with grand ideas of heroism. they are never the same after the few weeks of boot camp. Isn't that right? One of the areas boot camp tries to reprogram, is our natural reaction of Fight, Flee or Freeze.